1- Divide your worship over the 10 nights. For example if you're going
to donate 100 dollars in thelast ten nights. Each night give 10
dollars so that you're guaranteed to catch laylatul qadr. Do the
samething with your salah. Make sure you're praying a certain amount
each not so you don't miss it.
2- Have your list of duas ready to go. Especially this dua' that was
taught to Aisha (RA) by the Prophet (SAW): "Allahumma innaka `afuwwun
tuhibbul `afwa fa`fu `annee" . "O Allah, You are pardoning and You
love to pardon, so pardon me."
3- Try to make 'itikaaf (seclusion) in the masjid. Even if you can't
do the whole 10 nights do 1 night. If you can't do 1 do part of 1. If
you can't do any at all then be the support system of someone that is.
Providing food for them. Checking in on them. Conversing with them and
making the feel enthusiastic and motivated.
